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Commercial sex business flourishes in Dar es Salaam

Published on Sunday, 07 April 2013 04:00

Written by BILHAM KIMATI

AT LEAST 15,000 male clients meet female sex workers every night in Dar es Salaam. Findings have revealed that there are 7,500 female sex workers, a research by the Ministry of Health and Social Welfare on HIV Behavioural and Biological Surveillance (2010) has revealed.

The study conducted through National AIDS Control Programme (NACP) aimed at providing information on the prevalence of HIV infection, Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs), Reproductive Tract Infections (RTIs) and associated risk factors among commercial sex workers. A total of 537 samples of sex workers aged between 15 and older were collected and the respondents also provided blood specimens for HIV, Hepatitis B (HBV), Hepatitis C and Syphilis among other infections.

Dr Hezekiah Owenya, a seasoned psychologist, says as long as frustrations in life are there, and love relationships are constantly in dilemma, extra marital affairs are inevitable. “Marriage, for example, continues to face challenges, misunderstanding and bitterness. Under such circumstances male clients will not stop meeting female sex workers,” Dr Owenya says. He adds; “It is, therefore, very unfair to accuse female sex workers alone and leave the male clients who go out to look for girls in the streets and pay as much as they could. Some of the frustrated which they eventually get addicted to and make it a way of life.

Sex workers are there to stay despite the fact that they earn a living in a very dangerous manner,” Dr Owenya warns But the ‘Daily News on Saturday’ wanted to assess the situation further. A world of its own guiding regulations was uncovered. Different groups of sex workers, for example, operate under different ‘philosophy.’ Daring girls are permanently stationed near Kinondoni Makaburini area.

They would stop every passing vehicle. Skilful swaying of the body appears to be part of the training before joining the business to attract customers. Asked if not afraid of being assaulted by thugs while waiting for customers late at night, another lady CDE (real name withheld) says she had nothing to worry about because the ‘loot’ was also shared with the potential aggressors.

The road section between Sinza kwa Remy, Mori to Africa Sana in Kinondoni district is another hotspot ‘conquered’ by a ‘generation’ of teens. Anyone above 23 is not welcome there. Starting as early as 9:00pm the girls descend at the scene dressed in miniskirts with pleasant perfumes. “Potential customers will always slow down their vehicles ready to talk to us.

We stand a distance apart to avoid clashes. Lucky ones for the day reap handsomely,” explains OPQ (identity withheld). More than 30 girls line up both streets of the road. Some of them appear weak but not unwell, slender but not malnourished but majority obviously not above 18 years old. Judging from the youthfulness of the girls, one might think that customers expected should be of particular age, predominantly young men but this is not the case. “Come on, you are not serious. Age of a client does not matter.

Although some prove to be stubborn or too strong in action and too demanding, we accommodate them pleasingly. They need us and we need them. The payments must be agreed upon in advance,” she explains. The peculiarity of Sinza site is that older females already with children are not welcome. “Number one disqualification from the ‘membership’ here (Sinza) is child bearing. Customers flock to this place to pick us every night. They say they like girls more than older women. This is good because it helps set a good price ranging between 20,000/- and 50,000/- per night.

On lucky days one gets up to 100,000/- or more,” OPQ explains. Asked if not afraid of the police surveillance, she smiles, looks at the roof of the colourful sparkling ceiling of Corner Bar decorated with flash lights. She picks up a glass of beer offered for the talk and takes deep sip and says; “Night patrol policemen are our friends. Those in white Land-Rovers, popularly known as defenders and those in blue Land-Cruisers are our companions as we appease them with whatever we gathered the previous night.

“They (police) stop for a friendly chat,” she takes a deep breath and poses. We usually make contributions to calm them down. They leave us uninterrupted because they too benefit from our presence,” briefly explains the girl and runs away back to the street. The investigation team also visited another location known as Rozana in Buguruni, Ilala district.

The locality is another world of its kind. This is the place where ‘service providers’ of different ages meet. Again, the location offers perhaps the cheapest deal as low as 2,000/- per round. Asked about awareness in Aids preventive measures, a woman there says; “Aids is not the only killer disease on earth. There are so many causes of death. Besides, better die of Aids than hunger.” Another setting is Manzese kwa Mfuga Mbwa where local brews are sold nearly in every household. Rooms furnished with dim kerosene lamps for the business are rented at a cost of 1,000/- and chances for HIV/ Aids infection are equally high.

Other social groups known to be pushed to the business without their consent include students especially from higher learning institutions. Some of commercial sex workers are employed but admitted to have grown interest in the business to supplement their income. For example, there are ‘secret’ houses in Dar es Salaam specifically known as ‘Dada Poa Danguro’ meaning that ladies especially from upcountry regions are accommodated and ‘sold’ but the income goes to the business owner. This paper revealed the trick employed by sex workers at a place known as ‘Kwa Babu’.

At this location, educated girls gather and employ the following trick to ‘milk’ clients. This is the trick; a sex worker would invite a customer for a “quick service.” But secret communication with the police stationed in tinted cars parked in the vicinity goes on for timely ‘arrest’.

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"Dada Dinah habari ya kazi. Napenda kutoa shukrani zangu za dhati kwa kazi unayoifanya ya kuelimisha jamii kuhusu ngono na mambo ya mapenzi kwa ujuma.

Leo katika pita pita mtaani nimekutana neno linaloitwa KATELELO. Nasikia ni jina la style ya kufanya sex maarufu huko Bukoba. Nimemwuliza rafiki yangu wa huko Bukoba anielezee, amebakia tu kucheka, kacheka kweli, amekataa kunieleza inafanywaje.

Basically nasikia ni Cli-toris Stimulation technique ambayo nasikia mwanamke akifanyiwa hata kama tangu azaliwe hajawahi pata orgasm atapata tu. Tena zaida ya yote nasikia mwanamke anaweza mwaga maji hadi LITA 3 au hata 4.

Jamani hiki kitu kipo kweli? Sasa kama kipo jamani mke wako au mpenzi wako akitombwa na hao jamaa wa katelelo si ndio atakukimbia tena kibaya zaidi awe hapati orgasm akisex na wewe.

Please dada Dinah pamoja na wadau wote kama hiki kitu ni kweli na kuna mtu anajua basi naomba na mimi animegee huo utalaam.

Asante, Mdau kutoka A-TOWN"

Jawabu: Asante, Katelelo ipo na nina uhakika wengi huwa wanaifanya ila majina ndio hutofautiana au hawaipi jina zaidi ya "nilimsugua kisimi", "nilichapwa kisimini" "nilinyonywa/lambwa kisimi".

Swala la lita tatu za maji sina uhakika linasababishwa na "katelelo" bali ni maumbile zaidi kwamba wapo wanawake wanamwaga maji na wengine wanatoa ute mwingi lakini sio kisai cha kuleowesha godoro.

Sasa ni hivi, Kitendo cha kucheza na kisimi kwa utaalamu na mirindimo tofauti mpaka mwanamke anamaliza ndio kinaitwa "katelelo", kitendo hiki hakina tofauti sana na "kumshukia" mwanamke yaani kucheza na kisimi kwa kutumia ulimi japokuwa ulimi ni mtamu zaidi kwa vile ni laini kutokana na mate kinywani vilevile unanyonya kila baada ya "vibrashi" vichache, bila kusahau kuna "speed" amabyo huongezwa na kupunguzwa.

Kitendo hiki hufanywa kwa kufuata mikao fulani kama ilivyo kwenye "kumshukia Chumvini" na mikao hiyo ni kama vile "Doggy" Inaweza kuwa ya kupiga magoti au ya kuinama, kulala chali na kupanua miguu, kukaa kochini au kitini na kupanua miguu.....kama hakionekani basi mwana mama itamlazimu kutumia mikono yake ili kupanua maeneo yake nyeti ili uweze kufanyia kazi "kiharage".

Kuna namna ya ukamataji wa uume ili kufikia lengo, kuna wale wanaoushikilia karibu zaidi na kichwa hali inayoongeza ukubwa wa "kichwa" na ugumu hali inayo ongeza utamu alafu ndio wanasugua (hii kama inauma vile eeh), wacha niseme ku-brashi Kisimi, ku-brashi huko hutofautiana (nitakuambia jisni ninavyoendelea)

Pia kuna wanaume wengine hushikilia uume kama vile wanavyo kojoa (sio manii bali mkojo maji) au wanavyouingiza ukeni lakini sasa wanaishia kisimini tu na kufanya ile-brashi. Sasa wakati unaendelea na ku-brashi unatakiwa kuongeza manjonjo na "spidi" ili kumpa mpenzi wako utamu makini.

Unaweza kuwa unachovyesha kichwa pale ukeni (unapoingia uume) pale mwanzo wa uke kuna utamu wake ambao ni tofauti au niseme ni zaidi ya ule wa kisimi japokuwa huwezi kufikia kilele.......wakati "unamkaTelelo" Kisaikolojia atakuwa anasikilizia Utamu wa ajabu bila kujua tofauti, yeye atakuwa akijua unacheza na sehemu ya juu ya uke wake ambayo ni Kisimi.

Ikiwa mwanamke unaefanyanae ni mmoja kati ya wale wenye kutoa maji mengi (nasikia baadhi ya Wahaya,Wachaga, Wanyakyusa (kwa Tz), Waganda, Warundi na Wanyarwanda) hii ni kwa ajili ya kula ndizi nini hehehehehe......basi wakati anakaribia utaanza kuona maji yakiongezeka na akifika kabisa basi ndio vile......usisahau kuanika Godoro.

Wanawake wengi wa Kiafrika wanapenda sana mtindo huu wa ufanyaji ngono kwa vile ni rahisi kufika kileleni kuliko aina nyingine ya ufanyaji hasa ukizingatia kuwa asalimia kubwa ya wanawake hawana uwezo wa kusikilizia/kupata utamu wa ngono kwenye maeneo mengine (mwanzo wa uke, Kipele G, Kuta za uke na eneo linaolitwa AFE).

Kisimi ni eneo pekee la linaloweza kumfanya mwanamke kupata uzoefu wa utamu wa ngono kwa haraka kuliko sehemu nyingine za uke wake hata kama kajaaliwa kusikilizia utamu ikiwa maeneo mengine manne yakifanyiwa kazi vema.

Natumai maelezo yangu na yawachangiaji wengine yatakuwa yamekusaidia kwa kiasi fulani....

Kila la kheri!