Wafunga Ndoa Uchi

Haya jamani, kwa nini mnapoteza kununua nguo za harusi wakati mnaweza kusevu pesa kwa kufunga mkiwa uchi?  Hao wazungu walisema hela ya nguo watatumia kwa ajili ya kulipa mortgage ya nyumba! Ingekuwa safi kama wageni nao wangekuwa uchi.  Kutoka https://www.facebook.com/pages/Ijebu-News-Xtra/121224847988714?fref=photo

Fesheni Mpya ya Picha za WanaHarusi Bongo

Wadau, naomba maoni yenu kuhusu hii picha. Mimi nasema Tarzan angefurahi sana kuona wanaharisu kwenye miti! Bibi harusi alipandaje na hiyo gauni na heels?

Vazi la Nusu Uchi Lazuia Ndoa Kufungwa Kanisani St. Peter Dar!

Binafsi sioni shida ya kuvaa nguo ya harusi ya mabega wazi, ndo fesheni sehemu nyingi. Mbona, tunavaa khanga na vitenge na tunakuwa mabega wazi? Lakini kama umeambiwa mapema kuwa nguo hiyo haifai kanisani basi msikilize Padri au tafuta Kanisa lingine!

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KUTOKA  GAZETI LA HABARI LEO

VAZI LA NUSU UCHI LAZUIA NDOA KUFUNGWA JIJINI DAR....PADRI AGEUKA MBOGO NA KUWATIMUA WAPAMBE

KIVAZI cha ndugu wa maharusi, kimesababisha patashika katika Kanisa  Katoliki, Parokia ya Mtakatifu Peter, baada ya Paroko Msaidizi wa Kanisa hilo, Padri Paulo Haule, kusitisha ibada mpaka mhusika atoke akavae vizuri.

*“Ninatoa dakika 10 kwa aliyeingia na mavazi ambayo hayatakiwi kanisani humu kutoka mara moja akavae vizuri, la sivyo ndoa yao haitafungwa,”* alisema Padri Haule wa Kanisa hilo lililoko Oysterbay, Dar es Salaam.

Awali vurugu hizo zilizotokea Jumamosi iliyopita, zilianzia nje, wakati Katekista wa Parokia hiyo, Yohane Maboko, alipotangazia wanandoa na ndugu zao waliokuwa mabega wazi au kuvaa nguo fupi, kutafuta nguo za kujifunika au wasiingie kabisa kanisani.

Maharusi walikubali kutekeleza ombi hilo, wakavishwa vitambaa mabegani vya rangi tofauti na gauni jeupe la harusi, wakaruhusiwa kuingia kanisani, tayari kufunga pingu zao za maisha.

Aliyegoma kutoka na nguo yake ya nusu uchi

Hata hivyo, mmoja wa ndugu wa maharusi hao ambaye jina lake halikupatikana mara moja, alipotaka kulazimisha kuingia na kivazi chake cha mabega wazi, alizuiwa na Katekista Maboko. Katekista huyo alimfuata mwanamke huyo ili kumrudisha akavae vizuri, lakini aliibua zogo na kulazimisha kuingia na
vazi hilo.

Zogo hilo lilipoendelea, wanandugu waliingilia kati, wakitetea vazi hilo ambapo mmoja wa wanandugu, alimvua miwani Katekista Maboko na kuipiga chini ikavunjika huku yeye na wenzake wakimtolea maneno makali ya kumtaka asimzuie ndugu yao kuingia kanisani.

Wakati ndugu hao wakimdhibiti Katekista Maboko, mwanamke huyo alitumia mwanya huo na kupenya hadi ndani ya Kanisa, ambamo Padri Haule, alikuwa akijiandaa kuanza ibada.

*Baada ya Padri Haule kupata taarifa, alitangaza kuwa ndoa ya maharusi wa msichana huyo, haitafungwa hadi awe ametoka. *

Licha ya Paroko kutangaza hivyo, bado ukaidi uliendelea jambo lililomfanya Katekista Maboko kumfuata tena dada huyo na kumwamuru atoke nje, ambapo aliendelea kupinga na baadaye akatekeleza amri hiyo ya Paroko.

Baada ya hapo shughuli za kufungisha ndoa ziliendelea kwa amani na utulivu hadi mwisho maharusi wakatoka kwenda kuendelea na mambo mengine.

Akizungumza na mwandishi wetu, Katekista Maboko alisema waumini hao walikiuka maadili ambayo Kanisa lina wajibu wa kulinda na kuyasimamia ili  waumini wake wayafuate.

Alisema miwani yake iliyovunjwa ilikuwa na thamani ya Sh 90,000 na baada ya  ibada hiyo, aliyetenda kosa hilo alimwendea na kumwomba radhi na kulipa Sh 50,000 na kuahidi kumalizia kiasi kilichobaki wakati wowote.

Maboko alisema uvaaji wa mavazi yasiyotakiwa kanisani hapo, umekuwa ukipigiwa kelele mara kwa mara, na hata katika mafundisho ya ndoa huambiwa lakini ukaidi unaendelea.

*“Maharusi wakati wa mafundisho ya ndoa tunawaambia kuhusu mavazi yao na hata ya ndugu zao watakaowasindikiza kanisani, kuwa wavae kistaarabu lakini  hawasikii,”* alisema Katekista Maboko.

Makanisa mengi siku hizi yamekuwa yakipiga marufuku uvaaji wa nguo fupi na  zinazoacha mabega wazi kwa wasichana na wanawake, wakati wa ibada za kawaida na za ndoa.

Habari Leo

Hii fesheni inapendwa na vijana wengi

Wazazi Wangu Washerekea Miaka Hamsini ya Ndoa

Wadau, napenda kuwafahamisha kuwa wazazi wangu, Dr. Aleck na Mrs. Rita Che-Mponda wamesherekea miaka hamsini ya ndoa wiki iliyopita mjini Dar es Salaam. Ndoa yao ilibarikiwa katka kanisa la Anglikana St. Albans, Dar es Salaam. Walifunga ndoa mwaka 1961, baba akiwa mwanafunzi katika Chuo Kikuu cha Howard. Mama alikuwa amemaliza masomo yake ya unesi.

Mungu azidi kuwabariki.

Dr. & Mrs. Aleck Che-Mponda 

Misa ya Kuwabarika St. Albsans

Wazee wakiwa na baadhi ya ndugu

Marriage Seminar in Lowell, MA

Mbunge Frank ndiye wa Kwanza Kufunga Ndoa ya Kishoga!

Mbunge wa Massachusetts, Barney Frank amekuwa mbunge wa kwanza kufunga ndoa ya kishoga Marekani. Frank, mbunge wetu mpendwa wa miaka mingi hakuficha ushoga wake.  Aliwahi kuwa na skandali ya kutembea na malaya wa kiume na pia kutembea ma kijana wa kiume ambaye alikuwa intern Bungeni.

Mbunge wa Massachusetts Barney Frank (kulia) na mke wake Jim Ready

 

Congressman Barney Frank (D-MA) (72) married  longtime partner, Jim Ready (43) this past weekend . The couple got hitched Saturday at the Newton Marriott in a ceremony officiated by Governor Deval Patrick , and attended by Representatives Nancy Pelosi , Dennis Kucinich , and Steny Hoyer , and Senator John Kerry .

Kwa habari zaidi BOFYA HAPA:

Kwa picha zaidi ya arusi yao BOFYA HAPA:

I Refuse to be Part of Your Wedding Committee!

Nimepata kwa email. Naona MKenya kaja juu na hivyo vikao vyao arusi vya kila siku. Nilipokuwa Bongo kwa shangazi nilishangaa sana kuona  hizo invites za kamati zilikuwa tano moja! Haki ya Mungu!

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Dear Friend,


I refuse to be part of your wedding committee!

I got your invitation card to the committee. I see you quoted an amount that I am expected to contribute.I must say that I feel honoured that you remember me. It has been years since the last time we spoke. I remember we used to be in the same school, and we recently befriended each other on Facebook.

However, friend, I must say that this came as a surprise to me. You see, I am unable to afford a wife myself. I have been planning to get a lady and head to the A.G chambers. I hear it will cost me very little money.

I see that your wife is trying to keep up with the Kardashians. It is a dream wedding that she wants. If you are able to afford that, my friend, it will be a very good thing to do. But, kindly do not tie me to financial obligations when mine are choking me. The current economic times have put a rope around everyone’s neck. I cannot afford Kshs 10,000/- (180,000/- Tsh) as contribution towards your wedding.

I am willing, more than willing to be a service provider- to oversee pitching of tents, directing guests to the sitting places, showing them the little rooms, collecting gifts.I am willing to attend the committee to pray for your marriage. I am willing to attend your wedding. I am willing to do all this. Friends need friends. But
friends don’t exploit friends.

I saw a facebook group you had created earlier as well- something about a goat eating party in preparation for ruracio (pre-wedding).   You will forgive me, because the first thing I thought was: what a money collecting idea!

I could push myself and bring you a gift on your wedding day. It is a noble thing to do. However, I will not buy you a wife, help you wed her in an expensive ceremony, then stock your house. I often tell people to live within their means. I know you will thank me someday.

If you cannot afford your wife’s dream wedding, and you give it to her still, what happens when she is about to deliver, and she needs a dream delivery at the Aga Khan-Princess Zuhura Pavillion? Will you call us for an emergency ‘my-wife-is-delivering’ committee? When the kid wants to go to school and has to go to Cianda School and Makini School, will you call us in as well? The world has needier people, and more deserving causes!

All I am saying is a wedding, a luxurious one in this case is not for you if you cannot afford three quarter of the money required.

Bibi Arusi Ana Miaka 100, Bwana Arusi Ana Miaka 87! Kweli Kabisa!

Duh! Naona Cougar wa miaka 100 kaolewa leo na kijana  mwenye miaka 87 huko Kentucky.  Wanaarusi wanaishi katika nyumba ya wazee na walikutana huko.   Ni kweli mapenzi yakinoga unajisikia kijana.  Bibi Dana Jackson (100) anasema kuwa anajiona kama ana miaka 50 tu! Nawatakia maisha mema ya ndoa! 

Congratulations Mr. & Mrs. Strauss!

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(Dana Jackson & Bill Strauss)

Woman Weds on Her 100th Birthday


By Bridal Guide

On February 6th, Dana Jackson celebrated a century of life with about 100 of her nearest and dearest at the Rosewood Health Care Center in Kentucky. An ice cream cake in her honor was frosted with the special message, "Congratulations, you are never too old." But this wasn't your average birthday party, not even for a centenarian: Jackson decided to mark the momentous occasion by marrying boyfriend Bill Stauss, 87.

Stauss never imagined that he would ever wed again, since his previous marriage lasted 55 years. However, Jackson was the exception: "I found one that's just as nice as can be. Treats me good. Like a human being should be treated. It's rare to find a girl like that."

"I feel 50," Jackson told BG Daily News. "I don't feel 100."

This was Jackson's third trip down the aisle, but the first time she wore an engagement ring and traditional gown. Her first wedding took place when she was only 15 years old. She marveled at how much has changed since then: "Gettin' married wasn't a big thing back when I was young. It wasn't no big thing...it was just simple, you know? Just simple...we wore clothes and maybe a bouquet cut out of the yard. It's not what you got, it's what you make out of a marriage," she said.

Jackson's message is timeless, and in the AARP video below, her happiness is infectious, just as with any other bride. But marrying at 100 does have its challenges: The couple sipped grape juice in lieu of cocktails and Stauss had trouble seeing his wife walk down the aisle. The moment didn't disappoint-the husband thought his wife looked "beautiful" when he finally got a closer look.

Kuona Video ya Arusi BOFYA HAPA:

Aolewa na Wanaume Wawili huko Katavi!

Sijui ilitoka kwenye gazeti gani. Lakini kwa kweli nimependa ushujaa wa huyo Mama Kaela!

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MWANAMKE AOLEWA NA WANAUME WAWILI


MWANAMKE mkazi wa kijiji cha Ikandamoyo, wilayani hapa, Veronica Saleh ‘Mama Kaela’ (50), amefanya uamuzi adimu wa kuolewa na wanaume wawili ambao anaishi nao kijijini hapo.

Kijiji hicho kipo umbali wa takribani kilometa 30 kutoka mjini hapa katika Jimbo la Katavi linalowakilishwa na Waziri Mkuu Mizengo Pinda.

Pamoja na ndoa hiyo iliyowezeshwa na mume mkubwa kukubali kuishi na mume mdogo, imeelezwa kuwa mwanamke huyo ndiye ‘aliyewaoa’ wanaume hao kwa zaidi ya miaka saba sasa, huku akiwa na amri kuu katika nyumba, kama ilivyo katika ndoa za kawaida.

Wanaume hao ni Paulo Sabuni ‘Baba Kaela’ (60) ambaye ndiye mume mkubwa na Arcado Mlele (45) ambaye ni mume mdogo.

Taarifa za kuwapo kwa ndoa hiyo ya aina yake, zililifikia gazeti hili na kufanyiwa uchunguzi kwa zaidi ya wiki tatu, na hatimaye katikati ya wiki hii, wahusika walikubali wao wenyewe kuzungumzia suala hilo. Kwa mujibu wa maelezo ya mwanamke huyo ambaye alionekana kuwa msemaji wa familia hiyo, yeye na mumewe mkubwa, walifika kijijini hapo miaka 24 iliyopita, wakitoka kijiji cha Usumbwa mpakani mwa Chunya, Mbeya na Tabora.

Wakiwa kijijini hapo mume wake aliendelea kufanya kazi ya ukulima wakati yeye mama (Veronica), pamoja na kilimo hujihusisha na upishi na uuzaji wa pombe ya kienyeji ya iitwayo kayoga.

Mwanamke huyo ambaye amesema ana watoto wanne, Alfred (20), binti mwenye miaka 16 (ambaye ameolewa) na wengine wawili wa kiume, mmoja akisoma darasa la sita na mdogo ana miaka saba, amesema hana shida na waume wake.

Ingawa wanandoa hao walizungumza kwa hadhari, majirani walikiri kuwa mwanamke huyo anaishi na wanaume hao wawili kwa amani na kwamba mwanamke huyo ndiye mwenye sauti na si waume zake.

“Si siri tena sasa, tumeshawazoea, kwani wanaishi kwa amani ila yule mume mdogo anaishi kwenye nyumba aliyoachiwa na marehemu baba yake, lakini anashinda kwa mume mkubwa, ambapo inajulikana kijijini hapa kuwa ni nyumba kubwa. “Basi pale ni mambo yote, kula na kunywa, mama huyu amewapangia zamu wanaume hao kama afanyavyo mume mwenye wake wengi. Ama kweli ukistaajabu ya Musa utaona ya Firauni,” alisema mkazi mmoja kwa masharti ya jina lake kutoandikwa gazetini. Ilielezwa, kwamba wanaume hao wana akili timamu na hawatumii kilevi cha pombe kama ilivyo kwa mke wao.

Hata hivyo, mume mkubwa anapewa sifa za upole tofauti na mume mdogo anayetajwa kuwa mkorofi kiasi cha mara kadhaa kumchapa makofi mkewe anapomuudhi.

Majirani wanadai kwamba Mama Kaela na mumewe Paulo, walipofika kijijini hapo, walipokewa na kuishi maisha ya kawaida, lakini baadaye mama huyo alianza kuwa na uhusiano wa kimapenzi na Arcado, ambaye naye alilazimika kuachana na mkewe wa ndoa anayefahamika kijijini hapo kwa jina la Mama Pere.

Ilielezwa na mashuhuda hao kwamba mume mkubwa alipobaini uhusiano huo, alikuja juu, lakini mwanamke huyo inadaiwa alimweleza mumewe huyo, atake asitake lazima wataishi wawili, vinginevyo ataachana naye, ndipo mume mkubwa alipokubali kuishi na mume mwenza.

Katika maisha ya kawaida katika familia hiyo, inaelezwa kwamba katika baadhi ya siku ikitokea kuwa mama huyo amechoka kupika, mume mdogo huchukua jukumu la kupika na kumwandalia chakula na maji ya kuoga mume mkubwa.

“Lakini mara nyingi kwa mfano, ikiwa ni zamu ya mama huyo kulala kwa mumewe mkubwa, basi humfulia nguo zake kisha anakwenda kwa mumewe mdogo nako anamfulia nguo.

“Ndivyo wanavyoishi, nasi sasa tumewazoea ila yule mama ni mkali na ana sauti pale kwake kwa wanaume wale ila tunaona kama ana wivu sana kwa huyu mdogo ambaye naye pia ana wivu kwa mkewe huyo, labda anahofia kuwa mama huyo anaweza kuongeza mwanamume mwingine,” anasema mmoja wa majirani hao.

Hakuna mazuri yasiyokuwa na machungu, japo familia hiyo inaelezwa kuwa na amani, mtoto wao mdogo nusura avuruge uhusiano wa wanandoa hao, baada ya kuibuka mzozo wakati wa maandalizi ya ubatizo wake.

Kwa sababu anazojua mama, ingawa inafahamika kuwa wote ni watoto wa mume mkubwa, mke huyo katika hati za ubatizo aliandikisha ubini wa mtoto huyo kuwa ni Mlele (akimaanisha kuwa mtoto wa mume mdogo), lakini mume mkubwa aliweka pingamizi kanisani akidai yeye ndiye baba halali wa mtoto huyo.

Kwa mujibu wa mwanamke huyo, yeye na Arcado ni waumini wa madhehebu ya Katoliki wakati Paulo ni Mpentekoste. Madai ya mzozo wa uhalali wa `ubaba’ wa mtoto huyo, yalithibitishwa na baadhi ya wakazi wa kijiji hicho, akiwamo mwalimu wa dini wa Kigango cha Kanisa Katoliki Uruira, Mashaka Abel. Walisema miaka sita iliyopita, mtoto huyo akiwa na umri wa mwaka mmoja, alifanyiwa taratibu za ubatizo, lakini ilishindikana, kutokana na wanaume hao, kila mmoja kudai ndiye baba mzazi wa mtoto.

“Lilikuwa jambo la kustaajabisha sana, kwani familia hiyo ilifanya maandalizi yote ya sherehe ya ubatizo wa mtoto huyo, lakini siku hiyo kanisani wakati huo ilikuwa ni kigango cha Katumba ambacho sasa ni Uruira, sakata lilianzia pale Padri alipomwuliza mama wa mtoto huyo ubini wa mtoto naye akasema ni Mlele.

“Hapo ndipo mume mkubwa alipopinga na kudai kuwa mtoto yule si wa Arcado bali wake na yeye ndiye baba halali. Padri hakuamini, aliuliza tena na tena na majibu yakawa ni yale yale, ndipo ubatizo ukashindikana,” alisema Katekista Abel.

Kazi ya kutafuta undani wa ndoa hiyo haikuwa rahisi kutokana na mazingira ya woga na usiri uliokusudiwa kubaki, ambapo awali mama alisema kwamba mume wake ni Paulo pekee japo siku ambayo mwandishi wa habari hizi alifika kijijini hapo na baadaye nyumbani kwa wanandoa hao na kumkuta mume mdogo (Arcado akimsaidia mkewe kukoroga pombe. Awali katika utambulisho, walidai kuwa ni mtu na mdogo wake na kusita kuzungumzia maisha yao ya kifamilia.

Mke wao ambaye alionekana wazi kuwa ni msemaji mkuu alifoka na kuja juu, akidai kuwa hayuko tayari kuzungumzia uhusiano wake na wanaume hao wawili, ingawa alikiri kuwa wanaishi pamoja.

"Kwa hiyo umefunga safari yote hii kutoka huko ulikotoka ili uje kwangu mie Veronica … nasema sitaki kabisa mtu kuja hapa na kutaka kunivurugia mpangilio wa maisha yangu, kwanza nani alikueleza hayo, wambea wakubwa hao yanawahusu nini watu hao?” alihoji.

“Mie mume wangu ni huyu Paulo basi … sasa leo umeniachia vurugu ndani ya nyumba nitapigwa na huyo mume wangu Paulo, kwani mmenishikisha ugoni?” alifoka Mama Kaela. Hata hivyo, mume mkubwa alidai kuwa hatamwadhibu mkewe huyo na kwamba wataendelea kuishi pamoja na mdogo wake Arcado kwa amani. Hata hivyo, akina mama wengi kijijini hapo wanalaani kitendo cha mama huyo kuishi na wanaume wawili ambapo waliomba uongozi wa Kanisa uingilie kati, ili mama huyo aweze kufunga ndoa na mume mmoja.

Lakini kwa upande mwingine, baadhi walimpongeza mwanamke huyo wakidai kuwa kitendo hicho ni cha kijasiri kwa mwanamke, kumudu kuishi na wanaume wawili na kuwa na mamlaka juu yao.

Ndugu wa Arcado wao wanalaani kitendo cha ndugu yao kuolewa na mama huyo, wakidai kuwa walishamshauri na kumuahidi kuwa endapo ataachana na mama huyo watamwozesha mwanamke mwingine, lakini yeye Arcado, amedai kuwa yuko tayari kufa, lakini si kuachana na mama huyo, kwani ndiye ubavu wake wa maisha.

“Sasa tumebaki tunamwangalia tu huyu ndugu yetu Arcado, tumemshauri, lakini mkaidi, hatusikilizi. Basi nasi hatuna la kufanya zaidi ya kumwangalia,“ alisema mmoja wa ndugu wa karibu wa Arcado. Kwa upande wake, Mwenyekiti wa Kijiji hicho, Florence Katobasho, alikiri kuwa mwanamke huyo anaishi kinyumba na wanaume wawili na wanaishi kwa amani kwani hajawahi kufikishiwa malalamiko yoyote kuhusu wanandoa hao.

“Ni ukweli usiopingika, kwamba Mama Kaela anaishi na wanaume hao wawili … lakini kwa kuwa sijafikishiwa malalamiko yoyote kuhusu maisha ya wanandoa hao, mimi kama kiongozi hapa sina la kufanya na siwezi kuwafukuza, kwa kweli wanaishi kwa amani, mengine ni yao,” alisema Mwenyekiti wa Kijiji

SOMA   ZAIDI http://www.fotobaraza.me/profiles/blogs/mwanamke-aolewa-na-wanaume#ixzz1lVfLAlP4

Arusi ya Musau Kabongo na Orrin Kennedy Boston

Wadau, napenda kwajulisha kuwa ya binti tuliyemfanyia Kitchen Party mwezi uliopita ameolewa jana, jumapili 30.10.11 hapa Boston. Binti Musau Kabongo ameolewa na kijana Orrin Kennedy ambaye asili yake ni kisiwa cha Trinidad.  Musau ni mtoto wa Dada Margaret Kabula kutoka Mwanza lakini anakaa Boston sasa. Baba Musau anatoka Congo. Arusi ilifanyika kwenye kanisa la Seventh Day Dorchester, MA na Reception ilifanyika DAV Function Hall Braintree, MA.

Mimi na Wana Arusi Musau na Orrin

Musau na Orrin Kabla ya Kukata Keki

Dada Doreen Kutoka Rhode Island Akisimamia Chakula

Bwana Arusi Akitafuta Garter kwenye mguu wa Bibi Arusi

 

Kama Kawaida Akina Mama waTanzania walipika Chakula Kingi

Orrin na Musau Wakikata Keki

Wageni Wakijipatia Mlo

Mama wa Bibi Arusi, Margaret Kabula (amesimama) na Vicky Mareaelle na mume wake

Mimi, wana arusi na kulia kabisa ni Rafiki yangu na msanii mwenzangu Charles Jackson Aka. Mzee Matumbi

Bibi Arusi Ashikwa na Uchungu Kanisani!

Makubwa. Habari kutoka Muheza, Tanga zinasema Bibi Arusi, Mariam Shabani, kashikwa na uchungu kanisani, na kupelekwa hospitalini na shela yake na kuzaa huko! Pole zake. Mama na mwana wako salama. Wanasema alikuwa na mimba ya mieza saba.

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Kutoka Gazeti la Mwananchi:
Bibi harusi ashikwa uchungu, ajifungua kanisani Muheza

Thursday, 11 August 2011 21:16

Mwandishi Wetu, Muheza BIBI harusi aliyefahamika kwa jina la Mariam Shabani, ameshikwa na uchungu wa kujifungua kanisani wakati akifungishwa ndoa na mchumba wake, aliyefahamika kwa jina la Deo Massawe.Tukio hilo lilitokea juzi Kanisa Katoliki lililopo maeneo ya Majengo Shimoni, wilayani Muheza, huku umati wa watu ukiwa umejaa ndani ya kanisa hilo ukiisubiri kufungwa kwa ndoa hiyo. Mwandishi wa habari hizi alishuhudia tukio hilo ndani ya kanisa hilo, wakati Padri Martin Kihiyo, akiendelea na misa ya kufungisha ndoa hiyo, ghafla bibi harusi akiwa amevaa vazi rasmi la harusi, alianza kupiga kelele akidai anasikia uchungu wa kujifungua. Hata hivyo, baada ya bibi harusi huyo kupiga kelele, Padri Kihiyo alisitisha misa hiyo na Mariamu kuchukuliwa haraka na kuwekwa kwenye gari huku akiwa hajiwezi hadi Hospitali Teule Muheza.Pia, Mariamu anafahamika kwa jina la Sada Shabani, baada ya kufikishwa hospitali alipelekwa chumba cha kujifungulia huku akiwa na vazi lake la harusi. Baada ya kuhudumiwa Mariamu, alijifungua mtoto wa kike na kulazwa wodi ya Azimio wanakolazwa wazazi. Mmoja wa muuguzi hospitalini hapo aliyeomba asitajwe, alisema bibi harusi huyo alijifungua njiti akiwa na miezi saba.Kwa upande mwingine, kwenye ukumbi ambao ulikuwa umeandaliwa kwa sherehe ya harusi hiyo, watu walikuwa wamekaa ndani wakisubiri maharusi bila kufahamu kilichokuwa kikiendelea. Hata hivyo, kutokana na hali hiyo bwana harusi alilazimika kufunga ndoa na msichana mwingine wa pembeni kwa niaba ya bibi harusi, ili kuhalalisha sherehe hiyo huku bibi harusi mwenyewe akiwa hospitali analea. Inasemekana Mariamu alianza kusikia uchungu akiwa saluni na aliwaeleza baadhi ya watu, lakini walimjibu kuwa huo ni woga wa harusi.Katika hatua nyingine, mbuzi wa ndafu aliyekuwa ameandaliwa alianguka chini kwenye mchanga. Baadhi ya Wakristo walisikitishwa na tabia ya viongozi wa dini kuendelea kuwafungisha ndoa watu ambao wake zao wana mimba kwamba, ni aibu.

Bwana Arusi ana Miaka 100, Bibi Arusi Miaka 90!

Africa ukifika miaka 40, basi wewe mzee! Ukifikisha 70 basi unstahili kutotelewa nje na kuanikwa juani. Huna thamani tena. Mapenzi, ndo usahau kabisa, unabakia kukumbuka katika ndoto zako ujana wako!

Hapa Marekani, wazee Forrest Lunsway (100) na Bi Rose Pollard (90), wamefunga ndoa. Hebu cheki nyuso zao za furaha, mapenzi motomoto! Inasemekana wamevunja rekodi ya umri wa wafunga ndoa. Doh! Wamejuana karibu miaka 28. wote wanakaa kwenye nyumba ya wazee. Nawatakia maisha mema ya ndoa. Kumbe hata ukiwa na miaka bado wamo! Ila Zaeni matunda mema haifia kusemwa hapa.
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(pichani wanaarusi Forrest (100) na Rose (93))

Kutoka YAHOO.COM

For some people, it's never too late for love.

That's certainly the case for Forrest Lunsway and Rose Pollard, an Orange County, Calif. couple who were married this March 19, Forrest's 100th birthday. With a combined age of 193--Rose is a spring chicken--they're believed to be the world's oldest newlyweds.

A spokesman for the Guinness Book of World Records said they had been informed of the wedding and are set to verify it as a record. For 27 years, Forrest smoked a pack of cigarettes a day, and he still drinks the odd glass of wine or whiskey and 7-Up, he said in a recent interview with the The Daily. He attributes his longevity to never having had a desk job: He spent his youth trapping animals and selling their fur in Kansas before moving to California, where he worked as a pipe welder.

You can watch a video of them here.

Both Forrest and Rose had been married before, but were single when they met back in 1983 at a senior's dance. Though they soon started dating, wedding bells seemed unlikely.

'I told him up front I had no intention of getting married," Rose said. "But then one day he asked me 'how come we never got married? and I said 'because you never asked me.'"

''So he got down on one knee and said, 'Well I'm asking you now, just set the date.' I told him, 'I'll marry you on your 100th birthday.' And I did."

And being on the older side, the couple also has some wisdom to share on how to make a marriage work. Rose, 93, told The Daily: 'Take your time and get to know one another. Get to know if you like all the things that person stands for. ... Be forgiving and patient and say I love you once in a while."

Rose also told The Daily that their advanced age means that she and Forrest don't have many of the anxieties that can be a challenge for other newlyweds. "That's one of the things we can forget about--time. Because time doesn't mean that much."

And it's time well spent together: They both love ballroom dancing, and they want to kayak in Alaska and walk the coast of California.

"We've got many happy years left as I intend to stick around until I'm at least 110," Forrest said. "You've got to use it or lose it."
(The Daily)

Mama Bishanga Ameremeta!!!

Bwana na Bibi Marolen baada ya kufunga ndoaKwa mila ya waMakua kwa wanawake hulala chini na bibi arusi kupita juu yao mpaka kwenye kiti atapokaa.
Familia ya Hatia, familia ya Mrope, na familia ya Kamota wakipiga picha ya pamoja na wanaarusi

Wadau, Mama Bishanga jina halisi Christina Innocent Hatia amefunga ndoa hivi karibuni huko Dar es Salaam, Tanzania. Bwana harusi ni Mr. Marolen kutoka Afrika Kusini.

Arusi ilifanyika siku ya tarahe 5 Machi, 2011 katika knaisa la St. Peters Oyster Bay. Reception ilifanyika Peacock Hotel.

Nawatakia maisha mema ya ndoa.